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| موضوع: Muslim Teenagers in America السبت 13 فبراير 2010, 8:21 pm | |
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What do we hear about the Arabic teenagers in America? We as Muslim
teenagers are living in America and we are living a very hard life.
Now I don’t mean all of us but the teenagers that are holding on to their religion as
Muslims and to their cultures as Arabs.
You might think that America is the best place to be in or it’s a wonderful country to live in
from the side of education, jobs, currency and all of the things that human beings
want or love to have.
I feel sorry to say that a lot of teenagers and I mean Muslim teenagers have been lost
in America in many different ways.
You guys have to know that in here, parents that don’t look after their sons and daughters are
only lookig for thier own desires. such as their education, friends, mates they can
loose their kids easily.
My point of this article is to say that many Muslim teenagers are lost,(in different
ways) like some drink alcohol use drugs.
Which make the parents feel that they can't control their own chlidren and they put the all the blame on the chlidren .some of the parents can't control their children because of the freedom in here.
A lot of teenagers wear saggy pants just like the hobos outside on the street, even the small kids
whom ages don’t exceed 10 years old, the wear saggy pants too,why?
Because they see their older brothers and other teenagers do the same thing. The problem is that
I don’t know why they think that the fashion of wearing the pants is so cool and beautiful they don’t realize that its nonsense.
I mean what's the point of wearing pants that goes down to the middle of their thighs.
On the other end many girls a lot of girls are lost too, you know that in Islam it is
prohibited for a girls to mess around with boys.
I mean to talk useless talk like joking,
messing around all such things that girls shouldn’t be doing with boys that are not
{maharrim} to them But to the hurtful reality such things really do happen with
Muslim and or actually Arabic girls. I'll be truthful such things happen in my school too.
A lot of teenagers in here have lost their language and all they talk is English, can
you believe that a lot of them don’t like being Arabs anymore.
It makes me feel so sorry for the lost of so valuable treasure. We Muslim teenagers
around the whole world are valuable treasure. (In America any Muslim teenager holding on to their religion is exactly like holding
on to extremely hot burning coal.)
I am really proud to be a Muslim and I feel more proud when I am a Muslim in the west.
I mean there are people that really represent Islam in a very good way.
I have friends that went to a school where they were the only Muslims in the whole school and they are actually girls.
In that school they were really special and unique. Can you guys imagine seeing
three girls wearing scarves and such long solid dresses that cover their whole body.
Have you ever saw three red roses in the middle of a wilderness? That’s how they
were three beautiful girls among many other non-Muslim students.
They were so noticed in the school and everyone respected them for whom they
were and for the religion.
In America especially the non-Muslims anyone could go up to any girl and ask her
to go out with them, and if the girl didn’t have a relationship with others she wouldn’t refuse.
Several boys tried it with my friends and when they refused they asked them why and
the girls had to explain Islam and they give the other students books to read about
Islam and what Islam is all about.
I felt really proud when they told me that because I felt they were doing something for our religion. One of the problems here in America that I personally face in school is that you are
not allowed to write or really discuss your religion deeply because they say that you
would have to talk about Judaism and Christianity. Now as I said some really represent Islam and some really don’t.
Sometimes it gets to the point where a Muslim barely recognizes another Muslim.
I mean for the bad fact these days there are a lot of people who don’t pray, who
smoke, who wear like the non-Muslims, and I feel really sorry to say that some
teenager boys who go to clubs, drink, have girlfriends and so much more…. Wallah
there are boys that grow their hair up to their shoulders and if their hair wasn’t
straight the hair grows up and puffs up just as the gangs hair. It just takes so long to
describe our life in here and how we watch our brothers and
sisters in islam,wonder off from
our Muslim society and we can't give them any help. Its just a hard life in here and I
advice you from here that if you really care for your religion and you don’t want to
loose your children and unless you seriously have to come here otherwise don’t come.
(Live free and die free in your own country). I really mean it because in here if you
won't really take care of your kids and teach them the religion or
you will loose both your religion and your kids. i'm sorry for talking alot but i just want you to know a little bit about teenager's life in here
My will from you is to pray to Allah for us and for every Muslim that live in the West. We really need your du3a.
May Allah reward you the paradise with prophet Muhammad and peace be upon you all.
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